Cant stay hard during sex
I can say I go limp whenever me and my gf are about to have intercourse. They all had NO effect. Talk about the options, together. I'm trying to be supportive but it's hard to get out of my head as well. A man needs to feel he has a say in decision-making in the relationship, otherwise he feels like another child or one of the pets. Truly, perspectives from all kinds can help a person see a circumstance in a degree angle. He's everything I've ever wanted in a partner.
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Erections and staying hard
It may be better to say that you're nervous about having sex, you do want to do it but you're so stressed it's getting in the way of your ability to get hard. Reassuring your partner that you do desire and want to be with them is important. It's more common in Africa and the Far East. If you learn to make her cum super hard from oral and fingering, you may not feel so nervous about whether you get hard or not, as the girl will already be spent and collapsed in your bed so she won't care either. It's called competetive trap shooting. The strongest muscle in your body is your tongue.
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I blamed it on alcohol even though I only had 1 drink. We definitely need more of that from each other — mutually… empathy. Men often blame themselves for sexual performance but we tend to forget many girls suck in bed ehh. After these failures, I stopped watching porn and jerking off. I'm 47 years old, and about 3 years ago I stopped having full erections.
You were not taught how to have an erection. It's entirely possible that this is primarily a psychological issue. If you are anticipating sexual problems, in a way, you are mentally priming yourself for it. Specifically if you haven't already try polyurethane condoms. It's like a sexual taste test.